The first guy has not been married before and recently, the switch flipped in favor or getting married. It’s simple, he made up his mind to marry and he does within 3 months of meeting an appropriate woman he was introduced to.
He may have hired a matchmaking service or actively took steps to place him in front of his future wife. He made up his mind and is very clear about it.
The second type of guy is the same as the first in terms of the mind, the only difference he doesn't make it down the aisle.
He won't actually commit to marriage for a while.
For some reason, his subconscious is preventing him. He backs time out a few times in the 9th inning.
The third guy knows he is not ready to settle down. He is fantasizing about meeting the 100 percent perfect woman. He is forever in search of what he believes is out there waiting for him. Of course, he never finds her so it’s safe to hire a matchmaker.
He also has been presented the 85 percent woman, which he knows is perfect for him and just the type he should and someday will marry, just not today.
He might be in a fantastic monogamous relationship and on paper, their lives together are perfect.
However, he is test driving life through a high end matchmaker’s introduction and loves it. He knows what he has now and wants to experience it all, even at a high price as he renews several times with the same matchmaker.
This third type of guy is not going to get married anytime soon, so stay away if you are serious about getting married.
All the best.
Janis
